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marrie July 29, 2011 at 9:35 am Reply
I agree that "unavoidable biological differences and antiquated social expectations" are at the root of this issue. I also agree that men, by genetic design, are competitive and communicate sexual experiences as conquests when conversing with other men. This social expectation is undeniable and I doubt will ever disappear. The issue is that so many men still view women as asexual creatures, until a women is with them...then they are expected to be sexual goddesses. It's not the term or word {i.e. promiscuous} used to define a woman that is required to change, it's the general attitude or perception that needs to change.
ZJSimon July 31, 2011 at 12:28 am Reply
Sexual Goddesses to worship, or sexual Nymphs to capture? Digging below confidence from experience we find (and I acknowledge, fem positive as I am) confidence from dominance. This is perhaps where the hostility germinates, not just in double standards but in desires deferred; dominant/submissive types who are not into s&m cliches or white bread norms but still want to have a master and servant relationship. Unfortunately neither gender can express this well because neither can tell from a glance who will be receptive to it, much less receptive to it from them. Maybe asking for all this disclosure is less romantic, but at least it could be marketed as more 'intimate' right?
maggiemay April 19, 2012 at 5:20 pm Reply
i just found your blog, and i am fascinated with this discussion---are you familiar with the term virgin whore? that sums up men's unrealistic expectations of women in two words---way too many men want to marry a virgin, then expect her to morph overnight into a porn star---only for them
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