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I suppose not, though as I've never done any I'd have to take the word for it of someone who had that it wouldn't work. I've always thought ballroom dancing looks terribly dreary, so the idea of marriage being like a ballroom dance is a bit of a turn-off for me. But my own favourite type of dancing, country, involves a good deal of changing partners and being whirled around by a lot of different men, which isn't a very good analogy for a marriage! But must marriage be like a dance anyway? I'm not convinced that marriage can't work unless there is a clear leader.
by Louise C on 2005 Jun 1 - 17:46 | reply to this comment
marriage like a dance
Well, the quick step and latin are also types of ball room dancing, so I suppose whether it is dreary or not could be debated.
But my own favourite type of dancing, country, involves a good deal of changing partners and being whirled around by a lot of different men, which isn't a very good analogy for a marriage!
I also love this type of dancing and it, actually, is a very good analogy for my marriage. But that is a post all on its own, I suppose, LOL.
But must marriage be like a dance anyway? I'm not convinced that marriage can't work unless there is a clear leader.
I think marriage and life are both very much like a dance. Some people's marriages simply don't work if there is no clear leader, at least not as well as they could. I know mine didn't and certainly our sex life wouldn't. The thing is, just like there are all types of people and all kinds of marriages, there are a lot of different types of dancing. Many forms have no clear leader and some, the lead goes back and forth. I like the way John Michael Montgomery said(sang) it: "Life's a dance you learn as you go, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow. Don't worry 'bout what you don't know. Life's a dance you learn as you go."