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Tevemer
by Tevemer on 2004 Oct 4 - 15:13 | reply to this comment
Brought to submission
The name of this web site says it all. It isn't “Putting myself in his hands”, it's “Taken in Hand”.
Why is it so hard to get this point across? Well said!
I am not here because I want to debate this point, I am here because I WANT to be taken in hand. I both love and trust the man I long to submit to. I am a strong woman, and proud of it. I am not afraid to admit that as strong as I am, within me lies a deep and lasting desire to submit. I can "submit" at any time by playing submissive to a male "dominant", however that is both meaningless and empty and ultimately devastatingly sad and empty. If I have to play the part of a submissive taken in hand woman, I am effectively denying expression of my true desire...to be dominated...take in hand....by someone who is neither afraid to express his nature and who loves me enough to be that person that I so desperately need.
As this writer said, I am not "putting myself in the hands" of anyone, I am being taken in hand.
Why is that so hard to accept? I fear that the more honest men on this site, who speak to what women such as myself really want and need, the more naysayers there are that decry them.