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11. Like I said, there is no perfect alpha. The alpha is just the guy that is, for whatever reason the dominant male of the group. Which doesn’t even automatically make him the biggest, strongest, smartest, funniest, or richest. Maybe not even the most socially intelligent. (though I would say this has got to be the biggest factor since were talking about group interactions.)
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13. However, I can say that a higher degree of indifference is going to come with dating an alpha since by definition he’s going to be the type of man that other women compete over. (This part needs emphasis.) That is NOT one of the qualities you get to pick and choose for.
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15. Maybe he’ll spot the shit test for what it is, maybe he wont. Best case scenario he’ll spot it and brush it off. Worst case, you cripple your relationship with him and he leaves you for another woman.
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17. Again, assuming he’s actually an alpha.
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19. Something to keep in mind is that a lot of people don’t know that jealousy works different for men then it does for women.
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21. If a man lets his GF know he is desired by other women, it may make her jealous, but it also makes him MORE attractive to his GF because she knows he’s preselected. If a woman lets her BF know that she is desired by other men, she has NOTHING to gain in his eyes since preselection in men is not a factor.
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23. (And this is setting the ethical argument about manipulating your partner aside.)
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26. Timitz PERMALINK
27. December 18, 2009 3:06 pm
28. If you as the woman are getting checked out when you go out with your guy, he will notice, and that will trigger exactly the right amount of jealousy if he cares about you. You really don’t have to do anything, if another guy starts to sniff around and yours neutralizes him, you know he was possessive. You don’t even have to do anything. If you don’t have other guys sniffing around, keep an eye out, odds are yours is preempting them.
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30. Great post Bhetti. A really important topic for the long term success of any relationship.
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32. If 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 are met (all very important, especially 4 & 5) – then ideally 2 becomes a non-issue. If you can trust your partner to spend your money wisely, that’s really such a huge load off the stress factor in any long term relationship. Conversely, if you can’t trust your partner in this way, then its probably a good indicator of your long term priorities being out of whack, and relationship FAIL.
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