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12. May I congratulate you on your honesty, Louise. It takes courage to face this stuff.
13. There are still things I would find hard to swallow though. I mean, my husband isn't interested in controlling me to the extent of telling me when to go to sleep, when to wake up, not letting me get out of the car by myself etc, I think it would probably get on both our nerves if he felt he had to go quite that far.
14. When you put it like that, it does not sound at all appealing, and I don't think I like being micromanaged. Nevertheless, I do find Blush's Romantic rituals for the taken in hand article hot. And as with all these things, if you don't like it, don't do it. Do what you do like!
15. But as far as he does go, I find it surprisingly easy, most of the time, to be compliant, and I find that that delicious submissive feeling, which I used to experience only in occasional flashes, is now present most of the time, instead of just for short periods.
16. Yeay! I am so happy for you, Louise!
17. As far as I can judge, he doesn't seem to find it exhausting, in fact I think he's a lot less exhausted now, because we don't fight nearly so much, any potential rows are nipped in the bud before they get started. My inner Shrew still emerges, snarling, from time to time, but these days she is more easily subdued.
18. This rings so true to me. (I mean about the fighting being nipped in the bud, not about your inner shrew snarling!)
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20. Fighting is indeed exhausting, draining, life-sapping, unpleasant. I for one would much prefer to be taken in hand (whether physically or otherwise) than either a fight or distancing.
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