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15. Perhaps you should and you would see that I represent the second wife as well….read The Custodial Gatekeeper.
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17. I find it interesting that on articles that you all would applaud, none of you even comment on.
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19. Sharmar11
20. Yes, I do see the other side of the coin, as I am sure others do as well. And, yes I have read your comments and even liked some of them……we have conversed on this subject earlier and above. When nerves are hit it is sometimes hard not to react; especially when you see the other side of the coin quite vividly – that is what makes your letter above so insulting and is exactly why I made a comment in the first place.
21. I am wondering if it would have been better for you to have posted both sides at the same time. Then and only then may the comments have been more to your liking?
22. I came here because I was looking for advice; google…..please don’t automatically assume I am someone else with an ulterior motive, do you have the right to assume when you don’t know me? No. This is your website; you are in control of what is put out there…..while you keep mentioning the inability of not seeing the other side of the coin; I see the other side very well…..and again, that is why the letter above is so insulting and/or offensive. ….
23. While I look forward to the next letter; I am not sure I will be frequent this site further. I don’t need bullshit and being made to feel that assumptions have already been made based on others comments. I live that life; I came here to find answers….good luck.
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25. INMIY
26. What are your readers meant to do when “borrowing” this letter? What about it is empowering?
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28. I’m glad you mentioned this isn’t something you should send. On the receiving end it would read like this, “Dear Ex-Husband, I am not over you and I’m masking it in a bunch of garbage about your new wife and the children.”
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30. “There are so many things I could have told you.” Like what? I hope that refers to helpful and pertinent information regarding the care of the children, and not some weird misguided desire to bond with a complete stranger over your ex’s perceived faults. The latter is not only inappropriate, but creepy.
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