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12. “But acceptance goes both ways, and I think Louise's acceptance of her husband's desire for her to wear nice underwear is just as special as his acceptance of her as she is now. Some wives would stridently refuse to indulge their husband's penchant for nice underwear (no doubt on the grounds that their husband should jolly well accept them as they are, underwear or no underwear) but Louise doesn't. She accepts her husband as he is, underwear preferences and all.”
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14. And you responded with this:
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16. “…Of course, I also find it sexy to feel that I am pleasing him by wearing the underwear he likes, I like it when he tells me what he wants me to wear, or when he's away and he rings up he always asks what I'm wearing, "You're not wearing BKs (boring knickers) are you?" he asks sternly.
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18. And if he wanted me to start wearing makeup or something because he thought it was sexy I would probably make the effort to try, it's just the idea that it is somehow an obligation to look a certain way that I rebel against”
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20. To me this is EXACTLY like the difference between serving and obeying. Obeying is wanting to please him, wanting him to be happy, joyfully accommodating him except where your body really tells you no, because that comfort cues focus your body gives you is what keeps you in your receptive female energy in the first place and brings you to truly WANT to obey, and to obey with a FAR different gift than one who is not really obeying but rather serving. True obedience is not forced but pulled forth, inspired by cherishing. But a woman living in fear and “obeying” by forcing herself to because she knows she must no matter what she feels, she is a servant. True obedience, it is almost an ache, something truly pulled forth from you when you are both cherished and receptive, and overall your body gives you positive feedback (that inner happiness you spoke of when you knew your wearing what was asked pleased him). That doesn’t mean everything you do in obedience is convenient, or comfortable in the smaller immediate sense all the time, but overall you DO have a feeling of rightness about it, you do not resent it, it feels GOOD in the long run, the right thing to do, and you feel loved.
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