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10. When I talk about working on yourself there are a few questions that I suggest you asking personally.
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12. 1] What have I got going for myself?
13. 2] What have I accomplished for myself?
14. 3] Would I f#$@ myself?
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18. “What have I got going for myself?” Think about what you have to offer to the people around you. You could be a University student with a great understanding of the great outdoors or some other expertise that you hold dear. You could be a mechanical engineer that makes the best aglio olio in the west end of Singapore. Be positive and open it up, work on to see what angles you have that you’re strong at and this will open up other angles that you’ll need to work more on.
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20. “What have I accomplished for myself?” One of the most influential individuals in my life who was every bit an awesome friend, mentor and sensei in the martial arts used to coin a term “the spirit bank”. Think of it as a list of major things you had to go through to get to where you’re at. The spirit bank gives you an extra boost and does ever so slightly make you unconsciously lift your chin up when faced with difficulties. If you’ve managed a full marathon and clocked it in impressive timing then a 2.4 km run shouldn’t pose much of an issue. If you haven’t had enough achievements you’ve racked up in your life to draw inspiration from, start now.
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22. “Would I f#$@ myself?” Many people laugh when I tell them this. And then I look at them dead serious and they get stone cold. This is important. If you do not find yourself attractive or sexy in the first place, how can you confidently show that to the women you want? I’ve a healthy degree of narcissism and whole heartedly wish to drive this point home. You have to feel good with the way you look, it makes a world of a difference.
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