A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_URI::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/URI.php
Line Number: 101
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_Router::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Router.php
Line Number: 127
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 75
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/Controller.php
Line Number: 78
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 390
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property CI_DB_mysqli_driver::$autoinit is deprecated
Filename: database/DB_driver.php
Line Number: 371
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$carabiner is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1279
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Languages::$geshi_languages is deprecated
Filename: models/Languages.php
Line Number: 20
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/models/Languages.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Languages::$favorite_languages is deprecated
Filename: models/Languages.php
Line Number: 21
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/models/Languages.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$languages is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$curl is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1279
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$recaptcha_publickey is deprecated
Filename: controllers/Main.php
Line Number: 52
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$recaptcha_privatekey is deprecated
Filename: controllers/Main.php
Line Number: 53
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$use_recaptcha is deprecated
Filename: controllers/Main.php
Line Number: 54
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 284
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_cookie_params(): Session cookie parameters cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 291
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 306
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 316
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 317
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 318
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 319
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 377
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: ini_set(): Session ini settings cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: drivers/Session_files_driver.php
Line Number: 108
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_set_save_handler(): Session save handler cannot be changed after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 110
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: Warning
Message: session_start(): Session cannot be started after headers have already been sent
Filename: Session/Session.php
Line Number: 143
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1279
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$pastes is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 353
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property Main::$process is deprecated
Filename: core/Loader.php
Line Number: 1279
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/models/Pastes.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: filter_var(): Passing null to parameter #3 ($options) of type array|int is deprecated
Filename: core/Input.php
Line Number: 572
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/models/Pastes.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$benchmark is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$hooks is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$config is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$log is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$utf8 is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$uri is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$exceptions is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$router is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$output is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$security is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$input is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$lang is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$load is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$db is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$carabiner is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$languages is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$curl is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$recaptcha_publickey is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$recaptcha_privatekey is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$use_recaptcha is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$session is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$pastes is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
A PHP Error was encountered
Severity: 8192
Message: Creation of dynamic property MY_Loader::$process is deprecated
Filename: core/MY_Loader.php
Line Number: 129
Backtrace:
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/core/MY_Loader.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/application/controllers/Main.php
File: /data/htdocs/chris.teria.org/pastebin/index.php
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by ConfusedOfHomeCounties on 2004 Sep 4 - 01:29 | reply to this comment
Vulnerability - do you want it?
I like this article very much. It's not exactly how I feel, but it resonates strongly in my heart. It describes the kind of relationship I would like, and don't at present have, with my wife. She says she only likes "gentle love", but I have this notion that underneath this there lies a deeper dimension. I want to uncover it for her - and for me, of course! She is a dear, caring person and does many things to please me, but I instinctively feel there is a part of her closed to me. She doesn't want to make herself vulnerable. She wants to be in control of her emotions all the time - but in fact this is not how things are. Her emotions sometimes control her in ways neither she nor I like very much.
Now to Louise's comment: Louise dear, nobody is wanting you to be vulnerable (I can't speak for your husband.) Just be glad this site has such a variety of viewpoints expressed in a unoffending way for all to learn from and enjoy reading about. For me, this is all about trust. Trust is offered, and honoured. The more vulnerable the woman is, the more strongly she can express her trust in her man. The woman wants the opportunity to so completely trust her man that she becomes one with him, united in love. I, too, cannot help suspecting you would love the opportunity to show your trust in this way - wouldn't you, Louise? It's scary, though, and that is what puts many off.